2017年的母親節, 我決定寫封信給我的女兒. 她們當我的女兒不是她們所能選擇的, 但因為她們的到來讓我的生命充滿了喜悅.
所以我突然覺得, 母親節, 似乎是我該感謝她們, 讓我成就並享受了母親這個角色.
My Dearest Stephanie, Allison:
Happy Mother’s day. It is a privilege to be your mom.
I love you deeply. I
am so grateful and blessed for having daughters like you. I have been learning a lot from you. I enjoy every moment with you. Yes, I mean
every second. And thank you for being
nice and sweet to me. And thank you for your patient to let me understand you.
You are unique! You
are special. There is no second YOU. You
have special personalities and charming characters. You are precious to me, to our family and to
some people.
You are going to meet someone you love. Don’t be rush. Don’t ever chase a man, the right one will find you. You are no one’s property!
Take your time to observe people. Respect and self-control are the most important things to observe. No matter how much you love someone, don’t lose yourself.
Love yourself and don’t allow anyone to make you feel less of a person through their words or actions. You and you alone, are in control of your emotions and well-being. By allowing someone else to taint your self-worth, you give them power over you.
You are the only person can make yourself happy. Never forget that there is always a choice.
Your body is YOURS. No one can touch it without your permission. You always can say NO or just leave if something feels wrong is happening (especially peers, adults or someone you think you are trust).
If it feels wrong, don’t do it. If you know it’s wrong, don’t go along with.
Be a leader, not a follower.
Be Grateful. Be thankful everyday for your blessings.
The Happiness in our mother-daughter relationship is a special type of wealth. The more we use it, the more it grows.
I love you so much! I will be here for you, always.
Mom
You are going to meet someone you love. Don’t be rush. Don’t ever chase a man, the right one will find you. You are no one’s property!
Take your time to observe people. Respect and self-control are the most important things to observe. No matter how much you love someone, don’t lose yourself.
Love yourself and don’t allow anyone to make you feel less of a person through their words or actions. You and you alone, are in control of your emotions and well-being. By allowing someone else to taint your self-worth, you give them power over you.
You are the only person can make yourself happy. Never forget that there is always a choice.
Your body is YOURS. No one can touch it without your permission. You always can say NO or just leave if something feels wrong is happening (especially peers, adults or someone you think you are trust).
If it feels wrong, don’t do it. If you know it’s wrong, don’t go along with.
Be a leader, not a follower.
Be Grateful. Be thankful everyday for your blessings.
The Happiness in our mother-daughter relationship is a special type of wealth. The more we use it, the more it grows.
I love you so much! I will be here for you, always.
Mom
Ariel 2017
親愛的瑄瑄安安:
母親節快樂. 成為你們的母親是我的榮耀.
我深深的愛著你們. 我是如此榮幸能有像你們如此的女兒. 一直以來, 我向你們學習了許多許多. 我享受著我們在一起的每一個當下, 是的, 每一秒每一刻. 謝謝你們對我的甜蜜和美好, 也謝謝你們的耐心願意讓我了解妳們.
你們是獨一無二的, 你們是特別的. 世上沒有第二個"你". 妳們具有迷人的特別特質. 對我 對周遭, 對家人來說, 妳們是如此的珍貴寶貝.
將來妳們會遇到那個愛的人. 別急著這個過程, 喜歡你的人會被你吸引過來. 千萬不要追著男人跑. 你是你, 你不是任何人的財產.
觀察人是需要時間的, 最好的方式去看看這個人是否有好的自律和足夠尊重別人. 不管多愛一個人, 千萬不要迷失了自己.
好好愛你自己, 不要在意別人的言語或行為而影響了自己的價值.
只有你自己可以決定你自己的情緒和行為, 不要把這個控制權交給別人. 你是那個唯一決定自己是否要快樂的人. 別忘了人生中不會沒有路走, 永遠都會有更好的選擇.
從你們很小的時後, 我就告訴你們; 你的身體只屬於你自己. 沒有經過你的允許,任何人都不能摸他, 包括爸媽, 甚至你覺得可信任的任何人 . 在任何時候, 讓你覺得狀況有異時, 你有權力 拒絕 , 隨時可走開. 身體的自主權只有你自己.
當個領導者, 不要輕率的跟著別人起哄.
記得感謝每一天.
我們母女間的特別感情是我們最大的資產, 我們愈緊密我們就愈富有.
你們知道我很愛你, 任何你們需要我的時候, 我都會在.
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